I just random write this to remind myself.
I got the idea from my own feeling.
When 2people start to walk together.
Something wonderful forming between them.
It is call trust. Mr Trust is a very powerful person.
It can destroy or create in some situation.
We also need to keep this Mr Trust,
so that the love chain will not break open.
Beside that, you also need to understand
what your other half thinking, needs, what they lack of,
how much space and freedom u gave to them.
When 2 people being together, happiness is important.
But that is not enough. When u can feel them unhappy.
You don't know what the reason. Either take the risk or
let them Calm down. If u take the risk, either happy or sad ending.
It either worse or better.
Worse mean, when they are frustrated. u don't know why.
You try to chill them up, they feel it is a joke, then u upset them more.
This lead to crack in the love chain. This time they are more weak.
Other people will getting opportunity to become 3rd player if they
manage to release your lover frustration. Then nothing more u can do
because you are black listed and might be kick out of this love.
Happy ending will be like this.
If you have the confidence, then go solve out their problem
with what you understand with your other half.
If u success.... this will increase touch, glad, happy and etc of both of you.
Always give your other half some space and freedom. This is best gift for both of you.
Know why? This show you are trust with your other half. While he or she can do
something he or she happy to do. They can spend sometime alone, with their own family
and friends. This is call real happiness. It is something like let the fishing string away for further eventually u can caught a big fish, this theory. For me, i been listen to a lot suggestion but
my most favorite still ( spend sometime alone in the toilet ) Lol... i know it is funny.
But that is the best privacy u can have for yourself. It is short but still have time for brainstorming. If u keep control your other half. They will lack of freedom and apparently
they will easy get sick up of you. You hold them too tight cause them cant breath and
uncomfortable which is not best thing to do. Not hold too tight don't not mean u get too loose.
That the most worse, they think you don't show commitment, nothing is free in this world.
You need to work hard to earn something you wish.
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